Blowing Bubbles in the Storm

I took a break from raking leaves just to watch Julia blow bubbles in the driveway and came to a realization. It’s was bit bigger than a social media post, so I put it here. #CommonGoodVoting #VoteForTheVoiceless

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Something Very Right

My customary blog post for Down Syndrome Awareness Month is a little late this year. I never realized how crazy a sports schedule could be, but it was oh so rewarding. I and hundreds of others witnessed something beautiful at the Homecoming game’s halftime routine when everyone gave a little so that everyone could win.

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A Pastoral Letter to the Disabled Community

The start of the school season brings a strange mixture of anticipation and terror for parents of kids with disabilities. With all of the changes for the worse in the world, this year feels a little scarier. This is a small letter of love and encouragement to my people in that most special community.

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People We Don’t See ~ Shonda

My days are full of tasks and demands that put me on a treadmill that’s hard to back away from. But taking a risk and initiating a short conversation with a stranger reminded me of something far more important than getting the next thing done.

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Enjoy the Fireworks – But Not in Your Relationships

The mix of danger and beauty of holiday fireworks speaks to something deep in my soul – especially when I think of my adventures with my brother.

But it’s interesting how the meaning changes when applied to relationships. What starts as exciting can turn into the thing we least want to address – and we avoid it at our peril.

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An Open Letter to Jesse Tyler Ridgway 

If I find out about a trending social media post, you know it got some traction. This one impacted a lot of the Down syndrome community in not-so-good ways. It happened over a week ago, but I have a few things I want to share with a social media influencer I’ve never met…

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A Reminder of the Adventure

In 2016, our church produced a video with Jocelyn’s story of our early journey with Julia. Watching it ten years later, I was reminded again that, though I’ve learned a lot, there is so much more…

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Chris in His Element…

I spent an evening watching my friend Chris perform with a longtime collaborator. Chris brings so much of himself to the performance and shares it quietly and humbly. And of course, I brought my camera along.

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A Commitment to Reality…

On this difficult anniversary, there is a special grief that I remember feeling as my understanding of who we were evaporated. But there is the hope of a larger reality we can take part in that can overtake our fear…

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Christmas Greetings

In the last hours of Advent, I sat in the cool darkness of the morning to reflect on how badly we need the miracle that would come…

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